Master the skills that make relationships easy.
Learn evidence-based protocols to elevate your relationships in 42 days. Next cohort starts January 5th.
Master the skills that make relationships easy.
Learn evidence-based protocols to elevate your relationships in 42 days. Next cohort starts January 5th.
“Amy is… A dynamo of high-octane sex positivity.”
“Turned my sex life around at 53… My husband and I are addicted to each other.”
“Ian is exactly the kind of guide you want on your side when doing deep inner work.”
“The profound and deep nature of Ian’s work still impacts me to this day.”
A 6-week live bootcamp to repair old patterns and build real connection.
Ditch the Emotional Rollercoaster
Build a simple internal map to quiet inner noise and return to harmony in minutes.
Become a Communication Jedi
Turn conflict into collaboration — through ownership, curiosity, and vulnerability.
Build Confidence and Security
Learn that safety isn’t a condition — it’s a skill. You’ll stop chasing it and start creating it.
Feel Free and Inspired
Smash through entrenched barriers and filters that hold you back from what feels good.
Learn Pleasure Literacy
Discover that pleasure isn’t a mystery — it’s a compass.
Enjoy Lasting Change
The best part: it lasts, because we don’t teach lessons, we build habits that stay for life.
Guest Speakers
“Amy is… A dynamo of high-octane sex positivity.”
“Turned my sex life around at 53… My husband and I are addicted to each other.”
“Ian is exactly the kind of guide you want on your side when doing deep inner work.”
“The profound and deep nature of Ian’s work still impacts me to this day.”
Guest Speakers
Is your attachment system quietly running the show?
GO FROM DISCONNECTION...
1. Walking on eggshells ❌
You hide parts of yourself, avoid saying the “wrong” thing, and often feel misunderstood.
2. Stuck in the same fights ❌
Small moments spiral into big blowups or cold distance, even when you both want connection.
3. Numbness or anxiety around intimacy ❌
Sex, affection, or vulnerability feels pressurized, confusing, or clunky.
TO GROUNDED CONNECTION
1. Honest, relaxed communication ✅
You know your capacity, can say what’s true, and stay yourself in hard moments.
2. Clear signals, fewer stories ✅
You assume care more often, ask for clarity, and feel safer in the space between texts and talks.
3. Relationships and intimacy feel juicy and nourishing ✅
Emotional openness become 🔥fiery🔥 and easeful.
A 6-week live bootcamp to repair old patterns and build real connection.
Ditch the Emotional Rollercoaster
Build a simple internal map to quiet inner noise and return to harmony in minutes.
Become a Communication Jedi
Turn conflict into collaboration — through ownership, curiosity, and vulnerability.
Build Confidence and Security
Learn that safety isn’t a condition — it’s a skill. You’ll stop chasing it and start creating it.
Feel Free and Inspired
Smash through entrenched barriers and filters that hold you back from what feels good.
Learn Pleasure Literacy
Discover that pleasure isn’t a mystery — it’s a compass.
Enjoy Lasting Change
The best part: it lasts, because we don’t teach lessons, we build habits that stay for life.
Who This Is (And Isn’t) For
This is for you if you are…
Ready to Lean In.
You know growth lives in the reps—and you’re willing to stay when things get real.
Courageously Curious.
You explore discomfort, experiment freely, and trade “right and wrong” for real discovery.
Growing in Connection.
You learn best in community—helping, being helped, laughing, having fun, and staying kind as you evolve together.
This is NOT for you if you are…
Looking for a Quick Fix.
If you want instant results or a silver bullet, this isn’t it. Real change takes time, presence, and practice.
Avoiding Ownership.
If you’re focused on fixing your partner, blaming others, or resisting feedback, this work won’t land until you’re ready to look within.
In Crisis or Acute Trauma.
If you’re navigating active domestic abuse or deep trauma, you deserve one-on-one professional support, not a group container.
Curriculum
SCHEDULE
Jan 5 – Feb 11 | Mondays and Wednesdays, 5:30–7:00 PM (PT)
Two 90-minute live sessions per week
WEEK 1: Private Parts: Internal Family Systems in the Bedroom
Forget fixing yourself. You’re not broken — you’re a living ecosystem. A masterpiece of contradictions that somehow works.
WEEK 2: Shame, Reframed: Your Most Misunderstood Ally
Don’t shame your shame. We’ll meet it as a protector, understand its role, and shift it from weight to wisdom.
WEEK 3: Safety Third! “Relax, Nothing is Under Control…”
We can’t create perfectly “safe spaces” — only safer ones. Control is an illusion, but we can find inner steadiness in chaos. This week builds the muscles of self-regulation and co-regulation.
WEEK 4: Communication is Sexy
Connection either deepens or derails in how we talk. Most of us learned to defend or persuade; this week, we learn to relate.
WEEK 5: Pleasure Literacy
Pleasure isn’t a prize — it’s a compass that turns on when the environment is right.
WEEK 6: Integration & Future Proofing
No retreat highs. Real change happens with Tuesday habits.
Curriculum
SCHEDULE
Jan 5 – Feb 11 | Mondays & Wednesdays, 5:30–7:00 PM (PT)
Two 90-minute live sessions per week
WEEK 1
Private Parts: Internal Family Systems in the BedroomForget fixing yourself. You’re not broken — you’re a living ecosystem. A masterpiece of contradictions that somehow works.
WEEK 2
Shame, Reframed: Your Most Misunderstood AllyDon’t shame your shame. We’ll befriend shame as a protective part, understand its purpose, and shift it from weight to wisdom.
WEEK 3
Safety Third! “Relax, Nothing is Under Control…”We can’t create perfectly “safe spaces” — only safer ones. Control is an illusion, but we can find inner steadiness in chaos. This week builds the muscle of self-regulation and co-regulation.
WEEK 3
Communication is SexyConnection either deepens or derails in how we talk. Most of us learned to defend or persuade; this week, we learn to relate.
WEEK 5
Pleasure LiteracyPleasure isn’t a prize — it’s a compass that turns on when the environment is right.
WEEK 6
Integration & Future ProofingNo retreat highs. Real change happens with Tuesday habits.
TIMELINE
Enrollment closes: Jan 3, 2026
Course runs: Jan 5 – Feb 11, 2026
LIMITED SLOTS
The group is limited to 50 participants.
COURSE SCHEDULE
5:30–7:00 PM (PT)
Two 90-minute live sessions per week
WEEK 1: Mon, January 5th & Wed, January 7th
WEEK 2: Mon, January 12th & Wed, January 14th
WEEK 3: Mon, January 19th & Wed, January 21st
WEEK 4: Mon, January 26th & Wed, January 28th
WEEK 5: Mon, February 2nd & Wed, February 4th
WEEK 6: Mon, February 9th & Wed, February 11th
Dec 5 - Dec 20 - $900
Dec 20 - Jan 3 - $1200
Eligibility determined by financial circumstances. If you require financial assistance, kindly contact us at hello@intimacyrewired.com and provide a brief summary of your financial circumstances or needs.
PRICING
Enrollment
It’s Not a Commitment
Applying just opens the conversation. You’ll hear from us first to confirm fit - no payment yet.We Curate for Safety
We review applications to build a group that feels trusting, respectful, and ready for this kind of work.Beginners Welcome
No experience with IFS, somatics, or “deep work” needed - just curiosity and willingness to show up.High Value, Low Commitment
Each week offers nutrient-rich content and engaging live sessions - but everything’s recorded, and you can move through it at your own rhythm.Scholarships Available
We reserve spaces for reduced-rate participants to keep this work accessible to all.Private, Not Public
Your answers stay confidential. We’ll never share personal details outside the facilitation team.Bring Someone You Love (or Just Like a Lot)
Come solo or share the ride - add a partner or friend for half the cost ($900 total for two). Twice the insights, same cozy container.
A Few Things Before You Jump In
Your Instructors
Amy Baldwin
Sex Educator, Coach & Author
Ian Stratton
Transformation Coach & Relationship Nerd
+500 test-pilots from across the globe!
“Amy doesn’t teach from a pulpit - she meets you in the mess with warmth, useful insights and gallows humor.”
“This guide will help you and your partner transform your beliefs, practices, and mindsets around sex.”
“There are few people on this planet who can guide and hold space the way Ian can…”
“Ian has been a great help to me. I have already recommended him to friends, and will continue to do so!”
Enrollment Details
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TIMELINE
Enrollment closes: Jan 3, 2025
Course runs: Jan 5 – Feb 11, 2025
LIMITED SLOTS
The group is limited to 50 participants.
COURSE SCHEDULE
Two 90-minute live sessions per week | 5:30–7:00 PM (PT)
WEEK 1: Mon, Jan 5 & Wed, Jan 7
WEEK 2: Mon, Jan 12 & Wed, Jan 14
WEEK 3: Mon, Jan 19 & Wed, Jan 21
WEEK 4: Mon, Jan 26 & Wed, Jan 28
WEEK 5: Mon, Feb 2 & Wed, Feb 4
WEEK 6: Mon, Feb 9 & Wed, Feb 11
PRICING
Dec 5 - Dec 20 - $900
Dec 20 - Jan 3 - $1200Scholarships available*
A Few Things Before You Jump In
It’s Not a Commitment
Applying just opens the conversation. You’ll hear from us first to confirm fit - no payment yet.We Curate for Safety
We review applications to build a group that feels trusting, respectful, and ready for this kind of work.Beginners Welcome
No experience with IFS, somatics, or “deep work” needed - just curiosity and willingness to show up.High Value, Low Commitment
Each week offers nutrient-rich content and engaging live sessions - but everything’s recorded, and you can move through it at your own rhythm.Scholarships Available
We reserve spaces for reduced-rate participants to keep this work accessible to all.Private, Not Public
Your answers stay confidential. We’ll never share personal details outside the facilitation team.Bring Someone You Love (or Just Like a Lot)
Come solo or share the ride - add a partner or friend for half the cost ($900 total for two). Twice the insights, same cozy container.
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Your Instructors
Amy Baldwin
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Hi, I’m Amy Baldwin — pleasure geek, sex and relationship coach, and co-host of the Shameless Sex podcast. For nearly 20 years, I’ve helped people find more joy, confidence, and connection in their sex lives through real conversation, laughter, and gentle curiosity.
I’m trained in the Somatica® and Hakomi methods, co-own Pure Pleasure Shop with my amazing mom (yes, a mother-daughter sex shop!), and have twice been named XBIZ Sexpert of the Year.
My work is simple: create safety, invite play, and let pleasure lead. Because when we drop the shame and follow what feels good — everything opens.
Ian Stratton
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Hi, I’m Ian
I’m a lifelong healing nerd - obsessed with turning the wild world of personal growth into something real, practical, and alive. Over the years I’ve logged thousands of hours with individuals and groups, blending Internal Family Systems, somatic psychotherapy, breathwork, and ethical psychedelic work into one simple aim: actual transformation.
I bring a strong mix of depth and warmth to my work. I laugh a lot in my work. I cry sometimes too. What I care most about is creating a space that feels safe enough for people to be honest - to befriend the parts of themselves they’ve spent years hating, and to feel the relief of being met with compassion instead of judgment.
I love this work. I love people. And honestly, I can’t wait to meet you.
“Amy doesn’t teach from a pulpit - she meets you in the mess with warmth, useful insights and gallows humor.”
“This guide will help you and your partner transform your beliefs, practices, and mindsets around sex.”
“There are few people on this planet who can guide and hold space the way Ian can…”
“Ian has been a great help to me. I have already recommended him to friends, and will continue to do so!”
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